The One

Everyone have this "The One" thing! The One? What is this about? A special one person? The one thing to do? The thing you do coz you live only once? A book? A movie? A whatever stuff cross on Recca's mind?

Yeah, again everyone everywhere got this One Thing, the one thing we all seek in life. Be it something to do, someone to be, something to have,  a dream to realize, a goal to reach, a business to build, a fear to overcome, a person to love, you name it!

The worst thing that can happen is that we lost track of the "One". The One thing you seek in this point of time. Can this one thing change? Sure! But we always have another One to replace it.

My Mentor Ernest Wong taught me that we always have direction in life, if you don't. Someone will give us their direction. Our Parents, our teachers, our friends, our girl/boy friend and whoever it is you met on your journey.

Whatever you are doing, wherever you are going, have faith. have conviction. There are lots of stuff that can be your One thing, I don't know what yours is, but I will continue to share and hopefully we all find ours.

We all have our stories we like, the one thing we want, the thing that really matters, the one we want to make the most of. what's yours?

You only need "One", discover it

Recca
@roninsleader

Happy!

Everyone want to be happy! Don't you?
Happy is one of the most common answer if we ask someone what do you want.
There can be a lot of way to express it (dramatically  or not):
A. I just want us to be happy! B. All I want is your happiness! C. I just want to be Happy blablabla and so on.Hence ladies and gentleman, a lot fall to the trap.

In truth, you don't want to be happy.  You don't want to simply be pleasured or satisfied.
It won't last for long. What You wanted is Happiness!!

Hap·pi·ness [hap-ee-nis] means the quality or state of being happy.
Happiness! A quality or state of being happy,
happy with quality in such a state that it flows on your blood, in your life.
So ask yourself! Your TRUE self, what would really make you happy?
What is your True Happiness?

I once make this painful decision to leave a state of being happy,
because I know that I have to be better to truly earn happiness.
because at some point in life you might find..

The thing that is almost the thing that you want but it's not quite

Recca
@roninsleader

Difficult People

"What is the best way to handle difficult people?"

Wow interesting question. Yeah well we always have people trying to be smart and give us all those advice of how to influence them, to understand them, be patience and stuff. (you know all that & I'm not telling you). Well yes we should give people chance, I agree to that point, but what if all else doesn't work?

If all else doesn't work, You name it!
Ask yourself, do you really need this person?
Can you do it without this person?
Is this person worth wasting your time?
What else can I do differently?

Still! If all else doesn't work, here's what I do,
Say I press delete on my mind and lets pretend we never met.
I give them the infamous
"You're dead to me look"

Well knowing so, don't just go around and kill everyone kay!
I personally only give this to couple of super annoying people,
but bare in mind, never do it on people you loved.
Never regret something that once make you smile.

Recca
@roninsleader

Wanderlust

We all travel time to time, whether its just around our neighborhood, another island, oversea and wherever we can be. We walk, we drive, we go place to place. Maybe we went simply for holiday, or study, or work, or we got lost(!?) Whatever it is we shall realize that life itself is a journey.

The question is: "how far would you go?"
Everyone have their own journey, few years ago I make a decision. I choose to be better than to simply be happy, a tough choice, hence totally worth it! Some pains, some sacrifice are worth doing, because when the time come, you know that the price is right.

So Move! Don't just do what you are obliged to do, get out, get lost, get a Trip of a lifetime

Like how these guys, make a memorable journey out of theirs,
so shall we make our own memories and our own journey.

MOVE from Rick Mereki on Vimeo.

Recca
@roninsleader