Everyone want to be happy! Don't you?
Happy is one of the most common answer if we ask someone what do you want.
There can be a lot of way to express it (dramatically or not):
A. I just want us to be happy! B. All I want is your happiness! C. I just want to be Happy blablabla and so on.Hence ladies and gentleman, a lot fall to the trap.
In truth, you don't want to be happy. You don't want to simply be pleasured or satisfied.
It won't last for long. What You wanted is Happiness!!
Hap·pi·ness [hap-ee-nis] means the quality or state of being happy.
Happiness! A quality or state of being happy,
happy with quality in such a state that it flows on your blood, in your life.
So ask yourself! Your TRUE self, what would really make you happy?
What is your True Happiness?
I once make this painful decision to leave a state of being happy,
because I know that I have to be better to truly earn happiness.
because at some point in life you might find..
The thing that is almost the thing that you want but it's not quite
Recca
@roninsleader
Happy!
Difficult People
"What is the best way to handle difficult people?"
Wow interesting question. Yeah well we always have people trying to be smart and give us all those advice of how to influence them, to understand them, be patience and stuff. (you know all that & I'm not telling you). Well yes we should give people chance, I agree to that point, but what if all else doesn't work?
If all else doesn't work, You name it!
Ask yourself, do you really need this person?
Can you do it without this person?
Is this person worth wasting your time?
What else can I do differently?
Still! If all else doesn't work, here's what I do,
Say I press delete on my mind and lets pretend we never met.
I give them the infamous
"You're dead to me look"
Well knowing so, don't just go around and kill everyone kay!
I personally only give this to couple of super annoying people,
but bare in mind, never do it on people you loved.
Never regret something that once make you smile.
Recca
@roninsleader
No Idea
Last week, I went on a trip, I have no idea and no actual plan to go, but it gave me some spiritual enlightenment. Day after day, I met lots of people. I met those who thought they got things figured out. Some actually did figure out about their lives and is on the right track. Some seems to lose hope and end up getting wasted. Well a lot has happened and most of the time we have no idea whats going on!
Funnily, as I read some of my blogs, they reminded me of things I use to hold on. I don't know who read this. I have no idea, how you get here, who you are and what you expect. I pray that somehow I can help and simply become better. Feel free to come back and contact me.
We might have no idea, whats ahead of us, but we can always learn from the past. One thing that I am very certain of is that:
People don't change, they just grow for better or worse.
Take a Leap of Faith
Take a Leap of Faith
Oh Mirror Mirror on my wall,
How I wonder how you are?
Watch thy Heart, Lead the Beat.
Fall to Dark shall it Not.
Inevitable Pain seems,
Yet Suffering your Choice it is.
Time flies, People dies.
Yet those True Friends,
Never comes and goes.
When Questions Swarms,
Just Link arms.
Brace & Learn to Trust,
Bleed & Sweat for the Worth.
A Long Long Journey Live is,
Mysterious Ride it always is.
I do believe in Fairy Tales,
Eternal Mystery,Eternal Adventure
So a Leap of Faith
Shall I Take ;)
@roninsleader
WOW!!! Amazing on 11.11.11
11.11.11
-Not feeling well
-gotta go to campus Student Fellowship (alone)
(once important, maybe will become important & MUST be important,
woops no names)
there are few important chats,
and whatever they think
but I was sure that
There is no such thing as coincidence
Cya @ The Top!!!
This Time Next Year
I was just thinking...
Cya @ The Top!!!
Hari yg... "Menarik"
Hari ini adalah hari yang aneh tp gw lebi suka menyebutnya "menarik"
Cya @ The Top!!!
on my mind
I'm Sorry
Last Day of August 2011
Hiii
long time no Blog,,
well I actually got soooo many stories to tell,
Lets see if I could make time :D
Well recently the Great news for me was that Manchester United humiliated Arsenal 8-2!!
Even though I watched it alone at home, its fun!!
Well.... Today........ I'm waiting boringly sooo I do this QUIZBOX
Lets see What I've Got...
Your view on yourself:
You are intelligent, honest and sweet. You are friendly to everybody and don't like conflict. Because you're so cheerful and fun people are naturally attracted to you and like to talk to you.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:
You are a true romantic. When you are in love, you will do anything and everything to keep your love true.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:
You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love:
You are very serious about relationships and aren't interested in wasting time with people you don't really like. If you meet the right person, you will fall deeply and beautifully in love.
Your views on education
Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.
The right job for you:
You have plenty of dream jobs but have little chance of doing any of them if you don't focus on something in particular. You need to choose something and go for it to be happy and achieve success.
How do you view success:
You are confident that you will be successful in your chosen career and nothing will stop you from trying.
What are you most afraid of:
You are afraid of things that you cannot control. Sometimes you show your anger to cover up how you feel.
Who is your true self:
You are full of energy and confidence. You are unpredictable, with moods changing as quickly as an ocean. You might occasionally be calm and still, but never for long.
Well I got many things to do so... Cya Later
..and so as The Wind Blows...
Cya @ The TOP!!!
Recca L.
@roninsleader
The Revolving Trip
The Revolving Trip
In between of my quiet-hectic schedule
I have to go on a trip to Surabaya, well not for Holiday (certainly not)
but go to Surabaya to help on conducting a School Workshop for Singapore National Academy (SNA), Surabaya.
Even though I have to my campus in a not-such-a-good-time, yet this trip is irresistible and very important. It's the first school-workshop/training program from Learning Mastery in Indonesia. The first of the upcoming events
Honestly, I have lots and lots and I assure you lots of things on my mind, while I went for this trip and I'm also curious about some things I left and things that I'm going to do. However one thing for sure is that I know I have to leave for this trip.
My mind was not peaceful as it has been for some time and yet, this trip help me to ponder, to reflect and to revolve on my thoughts. Make me think and see at the other side, the side I have been putting little attention to for the last few months....
I realized how far I have gone... and yet I realized how far I have to go... There are Sky above the Sky...
The path choose to walk on might be difficult, but nobody ever promised it to be easy right?
and for me it's easy, it might not worth the challenge
There are thousand of reasons and yet for me one of the reason is because I have people, who believed in me. During this trip to Surabaya, there are really finally time that I'm alone and I have nothing to do (it rarely happens when I'm on campus, there are always someone haha)
and during that time, I open my old nokia phone, looking at old photos of me as I was on High School, SuperTeen Camps and other events I have been through...
I thought I deleted all the old messages(sms) on my phone, because I was about to sell it last time and yet there are some folders left and the first message I read was a bit stunning.
It says.. "I like you because you're such a gentleman. you know what should come first. you admit things when you're wrong and stand when you're right. you work well, you speak well, you smile really well, you teach ppl well instead of feeling insecure tht someday someone would be better than you are. you treat ppl well, you treat me well. thankyou..........."
Sorry, can't tell you the rest and please don't ask from who
in case you don't believe me:
well a little story about that message, it was supposedly written in written form, but since the person never get the chance while I'm around, she message me instead. I haven't got the chance to meet or chat with the person for sometime, but I'm thankful that her message remind me of some important things.
I remember that there are people, just like her who believed in me. Whether they say it or not, write it or not, show it or not, I just know there are. Not trying to be so religious, but I know God has a plan I have to fulfill and I believe that God will never give you anything you can't handle.
I have to do What I have to do
Wait till They Get a Load of Me
Cya @ The Top!!!
August 2010
Well August 2010 has been quiet a busy month for me
Its Interesting and full of events haha
Overall, this month I got sooo many things to do
3rd to 6th August, I got Mentor Training!! It was interesting, although I already learn about some of the materials, and yet it gives me some new insight
7th of August!! My Birthdayyy
8th of August, Cashflow Meeting meet with Ko Fred, Dd, Aldo and Dd's mom to play cashflow and to train ourselves to manage money! I'm the first to get out of the Race!!
9th of August, Inauguration of MPM and BEM! I'm officially Member of MPM 2010/2011
10th to 14th August, UPH Festival!! Time to Meet and Greet the Next Generations as Mentor
17th of August, Flag Ceremony and Go to Lippo with my Mentee
20th to 22th of August, MPK MPM!! I'm on the Event Production Division
27th of August, Youth Camp MC Audition - I'm the PIC of this since I'm also Event Production Division of Youth Camp 2010! Its not an Easy Audition for the participants, since it's not a usual event! Its YOUTH CAMP 2010!!!
28th of August, the Reunion Night of Communication, I'm member of Technical Support Division here
29th of August, Revivor (my futsal team) fisrt game and we won!! I got 2 goals not bad
30th August-2nd of September, Porank 2010!! The First Competition for NEW Students, I'm actually member of Sponsorship Division, but heck I still help the Event and Technical Support
Well It's a busy busy month!!
(Not Included the meetings wkwk)
Lessons of The Month:
-Busy is a Matter of Time Management
- Success usually Comes to Those Who are too Busy Looking for it
-We Turn Not Older with Years, but NEW-er Every Day
-A Good Leader is a Good Servant
-With Great Power COMES Great RESPONSIBILITIES
-The Time is Always Right, to Do What is Right
-If One CAN Do It, You Can Do It. If None Can Do IT, You MUST Do It!!
...and so as The Wind blows...
Cya @ The Top!!!
Recca L.
@roninsleader
Double Birthdayy
14th of July is Stedy's Birthday and 15th is Willy's Birthday, both are my very BEST friends for years now and Lets See What We did
14/07/2010
Stedy treated us on Yuraku MKG!! Cool!!
There are High School Friends and SuperTeens Friends, but mostly are SuperTeens haha
Check This Out!!!
Firstly, Just our old High School Friend
Back: Elly, Willy, Naoki, Recca (me)
Front: Pretty (somehow she get the hotseat wkwk), Stedy
Then with SuperTeen Resources
Back: Alex,Darwin,Audrey,Ira,Beatrice,Andre, Recca (me)and Michelle
Front: Pretty (somehow she still on the hotseat wkwk), Stedy
Later on, we got some EVIL PLAN
Alright!! We got Stedy!! BUT BEHOLD Andre has Secret Passion and Express it On the CAM!!!
Okay that was disgusting , but the Show Must Go On lah
Surprise Stedy!!! We Got Him Something Just Outside Yuraku
But it doesn't Stop there, He MUST EAT!!
We Couldn't Stop Laughing (You Must See The Pic on Andre's Hand)
Karaoke!!
All of Us
and That's Stedy's Birthdayyy
15/07/2010
Okay right on the next day is Willy's Birthday. He took us to Sea World but just the four of us others are not available today. So its only Willy, Stedy, Naoki and Me(Recca).
When We First Arrived, We quicly noticed this. Free Car?? wkwk
Then we go in lah,, The Three of us Watching...
Willy try to Break the Glass..
Stedy Started Talking to The Fish
I must also Communicate lahh wkwk
Then we try to catch some turle
Just before we go out,, Stedy has to do his calling....
Then he want to climb the statue and I got stressed again (I need a break man)
We Went on the Gondola and Willy is attacked!!!
But of course we SURVIVED lah wkwkwk
Last but Not Least We took picture of the Sunset before we went back home.
Too bad Naoki didn't have much photos, since he was the photographer.
Alright Thats part of that Story, Wish both of you All The Very BEST!!!
Lessons of The Day:
True Friends Never Came and Go :)
Thank God I have these friends I value Most
Cya @ The Top!!!
BACK To BLOG!!
Hi!!
wow it's feelslike forever from my last blog...well I have been kind of "occupied" the last few months and I have been focusing on those things that I can rarely blog or even open facebooks. If you look at my last blog, its like I'm finally LIVING my words. Doing The Thing I wrote....
I said that I want to be The Light and I want to shine hehe
so waht actually happened???
Dont worry coz I'll let you know hehe,, so keep reading xp
Well one of the reason I'm back is also that yesterday I meet lot of Amazing people on the SuperTeen Resource Test and many of the Resources Candidates are awesome!! One of them, someone I haven't met for a long time too remind me of something I used to do, which I haven't share in my blog for a long time hehe... Thanks to that person I'm BACK to INSPIRE ;)
Hope that person know, how thankful I am hehe
NOTE: From Now on I'll be writing short post as well and I figure I'll write some in Indonesia,, so CHECK THEM OUT!!!!
Cya @ The Top!!!
I heard the Voice!! Now Lets Shine!!!
Wow Havent blog for sometimes or exactly haven't post some of the blogs I had been writing...
Readers!! Let me ask you something...
Have you ever felt empty. . . So empty that even though many was around you, you just seems to be not in the mood of doing things properly.. sort of losing the idea of who you are??
Well Thats exactly the thing I felt the last few weeks, there was some kind of weird feeling binding me up into the center of a pandemonium, paralyzing me from what I should do and think. Bad influence?? Maybe, possibly and yet it reminds me of the title of my mentor's blog, Ken's blog, which is "WE ARE OUR BIGGEST ENEMY". So was it me being stupid or was is the influence and the atmosphere? Well one way or another I don't give a damm about it. Whats done is done...
I honestly will admit that whatever I did the last few weeks, was not maximized and was not enough for me. What people think about it matters not, because I know myself better than anyone and I know its below my standards. I could have done much better... Again one of my principle saved me, which is "No Fear, NO REGRET" and I shall just let those feelings away...
BUT HEYYYYY!!!
Have you ever experience a feeling that suddenly all the things that has happened to you, just suddenly appear in front of you as if you're watching all of them all by yourself??? Didn't happen often but happened to me tonight (still like 22.00 something when I wrote this).
All of the sudden I finally realize that I can be much better and if better is possible, good may not seems enough for me. . .
How does it happen? Is it because all the holiday, the conversations, the debates, the movies, the relationship, the friendship, the fun, the togetherness, the problems, the misery, the articles, the task or thing I've had all along last week till today that brings me Here and Now??
I bet each and every single thing happened have its own parts. Today I didn't feel so good about something, I guess some things just didn't work out and the Question is... "SO WHAT???!!" (I suddenly remember this words saved me so many times).
What doesn't KILL me Makes Me STRONGER and Even STRONGER . . .
Whatever happened back then... whatever it is... as long as I'm Alive.. I SURVIVED it. So from this point on, I guess I'll just Make MORE Things Happen!!!
It feels like there is a voice telling me to "RAISE AND TO RAISE MY STANDARDS!" (Always reminds me of what Ernest told us every camp) and Now... I heard the voice...
A voice heard in the distance that gives me a Hint. . . and Now its feels like I was hearing my own voice... I AM The VOICE!!!
It feels like... As if there are more and more Lights shining inside me, filling each and every part of me with more lights... As long as its for better. . . let me the Light. . . Let me be the instrument that Lightens Up Everything else!!!
Let's SHINE
Once in A Lifetime7/8/9
Today is 7th August 2009 or we can say 07/08/09, well probably nothing that important for most people. Well whatever happens in our life means nothing until we ourselves give a meaning into it. If you rethink about today you might realize that once in a life time everything is sequenced from 1 to 9, which is at 12:34:56 7/8/9
hahahaCya @ The Top!!!
Beauty is NOTHING without Brain
Beauty Without Brain
Today I'm just going to show you a funny video that teach us that.......
Beauty is NOTHING without Brain hehe
so Check This Video first then shall I explain what I mean ^^
Check This Out!!!
This short movie reminds me that Beauty is not only outside, its inside as well. I mean like an old saying say 'don't judge a book, from its cover', don't judge someone from the look, well if you does in terms of love I'll call it "crush", signs of crush at times you wanted to be with that person want to feel what's its like and stuffs like that and in the end it nothing more that "curiosity".
might be 
Let me give you something I learned the last few years, yet I learned so much about relationship, why because all around me I saw people suffering from it so I guess it might be interesting to learn and would be nice if say I can figure something out to help them and in fact I helped some to free their mind, even just a bit. Of course, I can't mention it, since they got my words and REAL man never goes back on his words.
Well another truth about me, ever since I broke up with my ex, I was single for about 3years now and mate I'm still ALIVE!!!
I mean if you can't respect yourself, how the hell are you expecting me or other people to respect you?? You don't deserve that and please mate, don't ask for something you don't deserve coz you'll lose it anyway. Time, take a not about this, time will prove and time will reveal, who you really are. You might look handsome/pretty/sexy/hot or whatever and so what? It's just how you looked, it's like covering yourself with mask to cover you disgusting/evil/dark/bastard side. If some people suddenly want to stop reading, I guess my writing has somehow reminds them of something. Yet I challenge you to keep on reading guys, I can't promise you anything, but I might free your mind even for just a bit.
Hmm to explain this I'll simply use a word called "charm", which will leads us to another word called "charming". Charming and charm are words that are often used to describe enchantment, attractiveness, appealing, inviting and any others which trigger other's desire and seems like hypnotized everyone and yet sorry to say only few have those charm, it's something rare you can't find everyday even every year, it's just,,, too rare and too precious. However many "seems" to have such charm, ehhhh wait why did I put quotation mark on the word 'seems', well its simply because many people "only" seems to have one, which will fade in time. Well you can't really lose you touch, unless you never have one.
Let me tell you a bit about these "creatures I don't get along with", I often called them "The Pretenders". This pretenders often broke their promises, pretends that they are good, pretends that the love people and when its time they'll just leave you and look for another one.
At times there are possibilities that they'll come back and begging for mercy saying every single sweet word for your forgiveness and yet they'll hurt you over and over again. How did I know that?? Coz I do know some of these "creature" and sorry to say they deserve No Mercy, No Respect, No Love, they deserve... NOTHING. I mean come on mate. You expect something you don't deserve? Well its up to you, but you'll lose it anyway. Like I said before the keyword here is "TIME" and Yes Time will prove it to you.Furthermore I will tell you and interesting fact, which experiences told me about these creatures. These creatures I called "The Pretenders", most of them are standing upon something called
Anyway this
Few days ago one of my friends is somehow poisoned by this philosophy and here are a bit of our conversation.
X... says: why man marry bitches
X... says: coz man like it
Recca,, says: no
Recca,, says: why man marry bitches
Recca,, says: coz REAL man turn them into princess
And I'm sure mate you don't want to be with bitches, like woman don't want to be with bastards
Things to remember...
-Beauty is NOTHING without Brain
-Don't judge a book, from its cover
-Don't judge someone from the look
-Time will expose everything
-You can't Really Lose Your Touch, Unless You Never have One
-People with only Outer beauty = NOTHING
-Do what you have to do, or you might regret it your whole Life.
"True Love is Like a Fairy Tale,
Countless Spoke of it...and Yet Only Few Witness It"
~Recca L S~
The Tale of My Heart
Today somehow I suddenly woke up early in the morning.
and just can't get some things out of my mind...
so I just write them down, coz I know I will be better.
I haven't wrote any poem for years.
and yet somehow I suddenly do... I called it...
'The Tale of My Heart'
its like a mixed up things I rearrange from my English assignments things x)
They said Nothing last Forever
Its Only in Fairy Tale
Yet Love is Like a Fever
Creating Its Own Tale
Countless spoke of Love
Saying Words by Words
and Truth Talks to Me
Expecting More Than Words
I forgot My Past
That did Not Last
Keep on Walking
All The Way Believing
My Head may Think
Listening to My Heart
My Eyes Can Wink
As I See through My Heart
That Even If The Sun Stop to Shine
and Everything Else can't be fine
Or Even The Moon Fell Down Tonight
I want You to Stay by My Side
Recca L. S.
11 Principles of 'Recca's Style'
Irish Proverbs
'Resource' basically means supply and yet supply is not as simple as food and money, but also anything or anyone who can be help for us. In the SuperTeen Holiday Camp 'resources' is the term used to describe a mentor, which are none other than SuperTeen Graduates that passed the test and is acknowledged as a mentor. Even though I never asked directly but I guess its because we (mentors) are meant to be resources (source and supply) for the SuperTeens.
And yet the question is... How can we become a good resource? Honestly nowadays I personally think that good is not enough. Like a saying which says 'If Better is possible good is not enough' and ironically nowadays good might not be enough, because I noticed that there are more and more people with good potential and skills.
So what should we do? Well we simply gotta be better ^^
and so I believe there are so many qualities, which is need to become one and yet I'll just tell you all 11 things, which is important to me and to make it easier to call and memorize... I'll just call it The 11 Principles of RECCA'S STYLE....
11 Principle of RECCA'S STYLE
1. Resourcefulness
As a resource of course we have to be resourcefulness lhaa, we gotta know how to get resources from different places. If we're told to do something we can't do, we have to look for another resource immediately, maybe a tool or even someone else that can help us. We might sometimes use our imagination though and yet the point is being resourcefulness.
2. Effective and Efficient
Ernest always told us about being 'effective and efficient' and I think SuperTeen (especially resources) should have known about this, or else I'll torture you all wkwkwk... So you simply have to be Effective and Efficient xp
3. Creating Influence
Alright Influence is a very important thing for a resource, because we should know that not everyone are willing to follow everything and yet even though we are selected as a resource, doesn't actually mean that we got influence. People might give us authority, but not influence. So create the Influence. This is the real basic of leadership, since authority might not give you influence, but influence might give you authority. So Influence is the basic of Leadership.
4. Champion Spirit
Spirit is like soul that would lead to our attitude and behavior. Therefore I trust Champion Spirit as one of the most important thing, since to become a Champion we don't only need to think or act like one, but also to have the spirit like one. The Spirit of 'Never Giving Up and to Keep on Pushing Ourselves Forward and Keep Moving Forward' as a Champion.
5. Always 100%
Yes as a Resource we have to give 100% and even more, even though we might be tired and exhausted, The show must go on!!! That's exactly why we needed to hold ourselves together and do what we have to do with nothing less than 100%. Actually sometimes the trainers and even some of the resources are sick and yet not many notice that because even though we are sick, we still have to be 100% and Always 100%!!!
6. Self Esteemed
Just like 'Effective and Efficient', Self Esteem is one of the most important basic though in SuperTeen and so I assume all SuperTeens (again especially resource) know about it and again review about Self Esteem, which is one of the key to become amazing resource.
7. Superior Skill
Superior Skill for me means that you have to be better in certain aspects, which aspects??Well the SuperTeens lessons is simple example. I mean of course you have to be expert, before you can teach someone. About other aspects you have to find it out yourself based on your talents and interest like I mentioned in one of my past blog 'Know Yourself'. Yet I have to remind you that nobody's perfect, so don't bother winning over others, just win over your old self ^^
8.Togetherness
Togetherness for me is more than teamwork, because teamwork might not occur without the togetherness of the team and for me we shall also be more than a team, but also a family that we care about each other as if we are brother and sisters like Ernest often said 'in the spirit of brotherhood, neighborhood, Robin Hood and the other hoods' wkwkwk
9. Youthful Charm
Having a Youthful charm is about being attractive with our young and enthusiastic side sort of being a charming person. Like Ken mentioned once, someone doesn't have to be good looking to become charming, its a matter of attitude and character. Therefore being attractive and charming here is important, because people tend to follow attractive person rather than a boring person. True or True? wkwk
10. Levelheaded
Levelheaded is a bit similar with superior, but it's in certain aspects such as being calm, wise and reasonable. A good example is that as a resource we can be 'playful' and yet 'playful' is not equal to 'playfool', they are different and as a resource that's one of our responsibility to stay aware of that, which therefore means we have to know when to be playful and when to gets serious! Knows when to lead and when to follow! That's what I called Levelheaded!
11. ExtraOrdinary
The Last but not least is Extraordinary. Extraordinary people are ordinary people that did extraordinary things and achieve extraordinary result, which means that they are people, who have made differences in their lives and others lives. For sure this is one of the key of becoming a Great Resource, since resources are meant to be a role model and so like Ernest said Resources must aspires to be Extraordinary!!!
Well actually as I mentioned before to become a great resource many qualities are necessary, but for me this 11 here are the keys that are very important on determining how good a SuperTeen Graduates become after they graduates and make differences on their own paths.
So one more time...
11 Principles of RECCA'S STYLE
1. Resourcefulness
2. Effective and Efficient
3. Creating Influence
4. Champion Spirit
5. Always 100%
6. Self Esteemed
7. Superior Skill
8. Togetherness
9. Youthful Charm
10. Levelheaded
11. ExtraOrdinary
Cya @ The Top!!!
