Beauty is NOTHING without Brain

Beauty Without Brain

Today I'm just going to show you a funny video that teach us that.......
Beauty is NOTHING without Brain hehe

so Check This Video first then shall I explain what I mean ^^

Check This Out!!!

In short, that short movie was showing us about a girl (which is classified as beauty), who ordered food in a library and when the librarian tell her that it's library, she keep on ordering the food by whispering, which indirectly shows that she doesn't really know what to do in a library hahaha. Well for boys/guys don't be so happy, bcoz it's nothing really about girls and yet it for both male and females.

This short movie reminds me that Beauty is not only outside, its inside as well. I mean like an old saying say 'don't judge a book, from its cover', don't judge someone from the look, well if you does in terms of love I'll call it "crush", signs of crush at times you wanted to be with that person want to feel what's its like and stuffs like that and in the end it nothing more that "curiosity". might be

Let me give you something I learned the last few years, yet I learned so much about relationship, why because all around me I saw people suffering from it so I guess it might be interesting to learn and would be nice if say I can figure something out to help them and in fact I helped some to free their mind, even just a bit. Of course, I can't mention it, since they got my words and REAL man never goes back on his words.

Well another truth about me, ever since I broke up with my ex, I was single for about 3years now and mate I'm still ALIVE!!!

YES Mate!!! I'm freaking alive!!! "SO WHAT???" ask me that. The "SO WHAT" here is that some people just can't live a month or worse couples of weeks or even worse couples of day without girlfriend or boyfriend. WOWW Fabulous Lets give a "GO TO HELL" clap to this people. They are definitely the people I'll categorize as "People I don't get along with". I disrespect them, I disgrace them and I'm annoyed for even knowing that such "creature" exist.

I mean if you can't respect yourself, how the hell are you expecting me or other people to respect you?? You don't deserve that and please mate, don't ask for something you don't deserve coz you'll lose it anyway. Time, take a not about this, time will prove and time will reveal, who you really are. You might look handsome/pretty/sexy/hot or whatever and so what? It's just how you looked, it's like covering yourself with mask to cover you disgusting/evil/dark/bastard side. If some people suddenly want to stop reading, I guess my writing has somehow reminds them of something. Yet I challenge you to keep on reading guys, I can't promise you anything, but I might free your mind even for just a bit.

Hmm to explain this I'll simply use a word called "charm", which will leads us to another word called "charming". Charming and charm are words that are often used to describe enchantment, attractiveness, appealing, inviting and any others which trigger other's desire and seems like hypnotized everyone and yet sorry to say only few have those charm, it's something rare you can't find everyday even every year, it's just,,, too rare and too precious. However many "seems" to have such charm, ehhhh wait why did I put quotation mark on the word 'seems', well its simply because many people "only" seems to have one, which will fade in time. Well you can't really lose you touch, unless you never have one.

Let me tell you a bit about these "creatures I don't get along with", I often called them "The Pretenders". This pretenders often broke their promises, pretends that they are good, pretends that the love people and when its time they'll just leave you and look for another one. At times there are possibilities that they'll come back and begging for mercy saying every single sweet word for your forgiveness and yet they'll hurt you over and over again. How did I know that?? Coz I do know some of these "creature" and sorry to say they deserve No Mercy, No Respect, No Love, they deserve... NOTHING. I mean come on mate. You expect something you don't deserve? Well its up to you, but you'll lose it anyway. Like I said before the keyword here is "TIME" and Yes Time will prove it to you.

Furthermore I will tell you and interesting fact, which experiences told me about these creatures. These creatures I called "The Pretenders", most of them are standing upon something called "Truth behind Lies" oh yeah I interviewed some of these people, even though we're not getting along. One of them said that it simply means behind all their lies, there is a truth a truth called by most of them "Temptation". So what is this temptation about?? Its' about lying about love, It's about making people believe that we love them and leave them, when we found a better one. I can only describe this as "NONSENSE" so you just hurt others, without thinking about them and each time I asked one of them most of them leads to "That's Live" and yet I say "No That NOT Live, that JUST YOU and YOUR LIVE". I always believe that don't do things, you don't want others to do to you. Thats why I can't play with love, coz I don't want anybody to do the same thing to me.

Anyway this "Truth behind Lies" is NONSENSE. Let me tell you why there is no such thing as "Truth behind Lies". I always believe that one lie will lead to another lie, why is that so?? Because once you lied to someone, you'll have to make another lie to cover the lie you've made before and sooo you'll have to make another lie, which will later on become a "Chain of Lies", which is similar with the "Chain of Hatred" I hated. Therefore I conclude that there is no such thing as "Truth behind Lies", because behind a lie, there will be another lie and to the next lie, which is what I called never ending "Chain of Lies".

Few days ago one of my friends is somehow poisoned by this philosophy and here are a bit of our conversation.

X... says: why man marry bitches
X... says: coz man like it
Recca,, says: no
Recca,, says: why man marry bitches
Recca,, says: coz REAL man turn them into princess
And I'm sure mate you don't want to be with bitches, like woman don't want to be with bastards

Well My advice if you noticed some people like that around you, please avoid them and leave them immediately because those are the people with outer beauty, and yet nothing inside. A part of you might not be able to resist the temptation and yet that's only a part of you!!! In every single thing you do in life part of you will agree and some will not, you might hear the voices, imagine the future or even got a feeling and yet... If I may give you, say a piece of advice... Do what you have to do, or you might regret it your whole Life.

Things to remember...
-Beauty is NOTHING without Brain
-Don't judge a book, from its cover
-Don't judge someone from the look
-Time will expose everything
-You can't Really Lose Your Touch, Unless You Never have One
-People with only Outer beauty = NOTHING
-Do what you have to do, or you might regret it your whole Life.

"True Love is Like a Fairy Tale,
Countless Spoke of it...and Yet Only Few Witness It"
~Recca L S~

TaKe ALL The WaY AboVe

Take It All,,, One Way,,, Above All,,,
Those are the songs I sang today and together I combine them into "Take All The Way Above" wkwk

But WAIT!!! Why do I suddenly have to sing those songs anyway??
Well it's actually because we got an EMERGENCY CALL from Ms Magda that the people that are supposed to perform wasn't ready and so she wanted us to replace them. She said something about F4 that can do everything wkwk and said that we're professionals that can do this.

Well I got no objection, but to be honest I usually reject things that are out of my plans, since I believe that "Good Things MUST Be Planned" at least even a bit.

So we just do laaa,,, time is about 11 something and performance at 3 o'clock!! 3 hours to go!!
Okayy first things first we gotta get,,,
Bass for Naoki,,, Guitar for Ley and Mic for Jonas and me!!!
Naoki called for reinforcement directly, but Ley can't so I go with him to his house to take his guitar, its a crazy journey we took public transport (angkot), but it couldn't take us close enough to his house, so we gotta run in the middle of the bright sunny day. (very tiring ckck)
Alrite then go back and set the things up. However we can't get proper practice since our time is very limited, I did short practice only with guitar and bass, then go to CAS lesson.
and,,,, 3 o'clock!!!!! Luckily I trusted Audrey to deal with the Power Points, while we're away..

and here we are,,, the group of people called,,

"SLight"
Ley >>> Guitarist
Naoki >>> Bassist
Daniel >>> Drummer
Jonas >>> Vocalist
Recca(me) >>> MC/Worshipleader + Vocalist

With Our songs...

1... Take It All

2... One Way

3... Above All

(think I got similar crap last time, but this one still crazier NO proper practice mate ckck)

It was quite succesful and we're even called back to the stage before the dismissal. I think some people record and take picture, so later I'll ask for them haha..

Lesson that I learned today,,,

Just as I said before "Good Things MUST Be Planned" thats a lesson that Ernest taught me and I couldn't agree more with him, although it was quite successful, but I was unsatisfied with some things like the Mic (make my voice sounds kinda weird) and the practice coz I know it could have been better and I personally wanted to sing "God of This City". However I'm still grateful that even though there are no proper practice we could done pretty well and if we practiced,,, It will be much better, so lets learn from this and Lets do BETTER NexT Time!!!

Last but not least, this experience also gave us a lesson about something I called "Take All Way Above", well its actually combination of the song titles, yet I'm not the kind of person that wrote something for nothing. "Take All The Way Above" for me means that there are so many ways to learn and to experience new things to improve and become better and so why bother so much about which way to take?? Just Take All The Way Above and learn from it. Accept the Challenge with Neither Fear, nor Regret!!! Like we just did hahahaha

...and so as The Wind blows...

Cya @ The Top!!!

Recca L.

@roninsleader

Blessing in Disguise...

What I learned from my Mistake…

Let me share what I learned in this SmartKid program.

As I've said in my previous blog that this SmartKid program, let me learn a great lesson to remind myself about... hey!!! even though we wanted to do something right or at least a right intention but if the action is wrong or not at right time/place, it might caused a misunderstanding....

Well I personally will say that I'm guilty to do something wrong at the second day (11 July), but as a man who kept my promise, I Walk My Talk and I can't tell anything about my mistake, but I'll still share what I learn from it right here...


One of the principle that is so applicative on this case is the one called "Action has Consequences" and yes I did something wrong here and I deserve the punishment and scold. The truth is that I'm very upset and disappointed at myself... but I also remember one of my principle that I always remember, which is


"What doesn't Kill me,
Makes me Stronger"

and yes it makes me looks more clearly about this and let me learn such an important lesson. Indeed I figured that principle from a friend (I'm sure that the person know about it, thank you so much Xu Shi Pei) as I was on a problem too, but the difference is that this time it's my mistake, but it's still applicative.

In fact I also find a great book that really help me to reflect and kinda cheer me up, which is the "Joys & Pains of Growing Up" by Peter Lau. In his book I found many great quotes and for my case this time I found a very nice quote in Principle 2, which is...

“Every Negative Event contains within it the seed of an equal or greater Benefit” – Napoleon Hill

and also from Peter himself

“A thing may not be as bad as it seems. It may just be a blessing in disguise”

Many of people also cheer me up as they talk about this with me even Peter himself also talked to me about this... Special thanks to Peter, Ko Dickson, Ci Mega, Yonis, Lindy, Mona, Dion and also all my friends that cheer me up that day, I really appreciate all of you..

Even though it's not such an easy thing to go through, but I can overcome my own negative thoughts and go on, also with a therapy that I learned from Pak Tung and that I did to myself to let go of that feeling, which is called the "Disassociate", it's so powerful thanks to Pak Tung too. Then the next day I also played the "John Grinder Game" and even do the "Double Disassociate" to myself that I also learned from Pak Tung. Well this mistake also let me practice on how to therapy myself, I learned much from this...

Furthermore this event also let me understand more about Pak Tung's concept about "Whatever happens in our Life, it depends on us, about what Meaning we give to it and how we act to it" that the Meaning I give to this event is that I have to challenge and prove myself even more, which is similar which what Ernest said about "The Way you see yourself determines what you think you can do and that determines what you'll attempt and that determines your success or failure"
...and with all of those plus my greatest principle 'What doesn't Kill me, Makes me stronger", I can now see even more clearer about life and how to fail forward, now I really see that Failing Forward is possible like John C Maxwell said on his book( even though I haven't read that one, but I have to read it too later), it's really a rare opportunity since I haven't made such a big mistake for a long time, so this mistake is so precious and worthed for me...

Thanks for reading...

And as the Wind blows… Cya at the Top!!!

Who am I?

I'll start my blog by asking this simple question...
Who am I?

Just imagine so many people start to do anything in their life and just do, do and do without any though about it, well if you're one of them please ask yourself... Who are you?

Found an answer yet? Well I you start answering with your name, family, school, and other data's about you that's not what I wanted to hear from you, I wanted to know, who you are "inside yourself"

I belief that we're Worlds Greatest Miracle therefore I wanted all of you who read my blog to know about yourself first before you start with anything. Please think about it there's nothing right or nothing wrong it's only about you and it's your decision about what you answer.

I actually got a blog but I was on friendster so I decided to make a new one, but if you're interested you can check it out at http://the_emperors.blogs.friendster.com/emperors_blog/

Now that I asked you about the question "Who am I?"I'm not going to answer it, bcoz I wanted all of you to think about it yourself first...
So I'll just tell you about My Dreams here...

Dreams... what are dreams actually??
Is it just something that you can answer directly? Is it something that you want? or is is something that you like most? Or are dreams just something that cross into your mind as you are sleeping?

Well for me a dream is something that I really wanted, it's not just that I liked it, but for me it's something that I have to get or be whatever it takes at all cost, even that I have to struggle, work hard, or anything it's more than that. It's something so special in my life that no matter how I have to achieve them, they're like my end goals that I really wanted.

So I actually have so many goals to achieve but then I'll tell you about one of them here, my Mission Statement, one of my goals is to become a trainer, not just a trainer but a Great Trainer a remarkable one that I will always be remembered... If somebody now asked me, "why do you wanted to become a trainer?" Well my answer will be, why don't I? I mean why are you even asking?? Maybe some of them will say don't dream too high, well I can only say... whatever... I mean it's up to me right whether I react to those people that hey maybe they're right ok I'll become something else or maybe I also can become angry strike them crazily and say "hey you what your problem, can't you just leave me alone!!" or I can simply say and this is what I choose to stay calm, took a deep breath and say... "whatever with you, but I'll be one and what about you? any dreams?"

Well you see to have achieve something I believe that you have to have a goal to achieve, maybe a dream, but just having them will also not enough, you have to plan them and make it real!! So in my case I decided that I need a strong reason and commitment to do it, I have thousands of reason to become a trainer and I have the commitment to learn. Maybe it won't be easy but the challenge is something that will empower me to achieve my goal.

I'll become one and I'll proof to the world that I can!!! If other's can, So can I!!!

Anyway thanks for reading..